OK...the "E" is the processor revision.
You *must* have an V+, since you say the 128Mb/128MB module works by itself.
As Denniss says, sometimes the load order of the modules matters, but it seems you have covered all of that already with no joy. This assumes that the chipset (BIOS?) can read each bank (slot) independently and set up the proper configuration for each...it seems that yours cannot.
I'd have to get a hold of the chipset datasheet to see if the V/V+ can do this or not.
For now, if possible, just get three identical modules...and "avoid" the issue.
