i finally had time to do the bios thingy...i dorm so i normally use my laptop and my home computer is the one that needs the help. here is the info i got
Program: eSupport.com BIOS Agent Version 3.52
BIOS Date: 09/29/04
BIOS Type: American Megatrends
BIOS ID: 63-3A01-001169-00101111-040201-I865G-1I865XXX
OEM Sign-On: A6728IMS V3.A 092904
Chipset: Intel 2570 rev 2
Superio: Unknown
OS: WinXP SP2
CPU: Intel(R) Pentium(R) 4 Processor 3200 Mhz MAX: 4000 Mhz
BIOS ROM In Socket: Yes
BIOS ROM Size: 512K
Memory Installed: 1024 MB
Memory Maximum: 4096 MB
Memory Slot 01: 256 MB
Memory Slot 02: 256 MB
Memory Slot 03: 512 MB
Memory Slot 04: 0 MB
eSupport.com, Inc.
1-800-800-BIOS (2467)
www.esupport.com
the cables look fine to me. it's a SATA hd and it should work. i didn't see it being detected when i looked in the bios menus before startup so i really don't know what's going on.