Ok thanks for those who helped
I thought I would let you know how I solvd the problem:
I was originally in jumper free mode, then during my trials to solve the problem I set things manually but nothing worked.. I left it there for almost a day and then got the hint from someone to try to switch it back to jumper free mode and that's where my system wokred again , but mind you though that when I switched it back and it wokred I had my memory removed as well as part of another test, so actually it is when the system started beeping looking for memory , that I knew that if I put it back the system would actually boot normally.
and it did

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